DO ... 

DO, Forgive 

DO, Be honest with yourself 

DO Be Humble 

DO, Take it Easy - Tension is Harmful 

DO Play 

DO, Find recreation and hobbies 

DO, Keep on Trying whenever you fail 

DO, Learn all the facts about Alcoholism 

DO, Attend Al-Anon meetings often 

DO, Pray 

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DON'T ... 

DON'T Be Self-Righteous 

DON'T Try to dominate, nag, 
scold or complain
 
DON'T Lose Your Temper 

DON'T Try to push anyone but yourself 

DON'T Keep bringing up the past 

DON'T Keep checking up on your alcoholic 

DON'T Wallow in self-pity 

DON'T Make threats you don't intend to carry out 

DON'T Be over-protective 

DON'T Be a doormat

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